Life transitions—whether it's a career change, the end of a relationship, a health challenge, or another major shift—can shake our confidence and leave us questioning our self-worth. It’s common to feel uncertain about your next steps, but self-doubt does
not define you.
At the core of these feelings is fear—fear of the unknown, fear of failure, or fear of losing control. But confidence isn’t something you either have or don’t have; it’s something you cultivate.
By using the IRAC Method (Identify, Rule, Action, Conclusion), you can break down self-doubt, shift your mindset, and reclaim your confidence with clarity and purpose.
Step 1: Identify the Root of Your Self-Doubt
Before you can rebuild confidence, you need to understand where your self-doubt is coming from. Ask yourself:
✔️ What specific transition has triggered these feelings?
✔️ How does self-doubt show up in your daily life?
✔️ What stories are you telling yourself about your worth and abilities?
For example, if you’re struggling after a breakup, you might believe that you’re “not lovable” or “not good enough.” If you lost a job, you may feel like a failure. But these thoughts are not facts—they are just narratives you’ve internalized.
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Step 2: Challenge the "Rules" That Hold You Back
Once you’ve identified your self-doubt, ask:
✔️ What “rules” am I operating under?
✔️ Do I believe that my worth is tied to success, approval, or external validation?
✔️ Are these beliefs true—or have I simply accepted them as truth?
Many of us subconsciously limit ourselves based on past experiences, societal expectations, or outdated beliefs. But confidence isn’t about being perfect—it’s about rewriting your inner rules so they empower, rather than limit, you.
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Step 3: Take Empowered Action
Confidence isn’t just a feeling—it’s a muscle that grows when exercised. Instead of waiting to “feel” confident, take small, aligned actions that build it.
✔️ Separate emotion from fact. What proof do you have that your self-doubt is real?
✔️ Reframe your story. What new belief can replace the old, limiting one?
✔️ Take one small step. Action breeds confidence, not the other way around.
For example, if self-doubt is stopping you from applying for a new job, rewrite the narrative. Instead of saying, “I’m not experienced enough,” shift to, “I bring unique skills and am capable of learning.” Then, take action—update your resume, reach out to a mentor, or apply for one role.
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Step 4: Reach a New Conclusion—You Are Capable
After working through your self-doubt, reflect:
✔️ Have I accurately identified the real issue?
✔️ What beliefs no longer serve me?
✔️ What actions will I commit to moving forward?
Confidence isn’t about never feeling doubt—it’s about trusting yourself despite it. The spiritual law of “I AM” reminds us that our worth is inherent—not determined by external circumstances.
You are not your job, your relationship, or your past. You are enough as you are.
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Final Thoughts: Confidence Is a Journey, Not a Destination
✔ Self-doubt is just a thought—not a truth.
✔ Your confidence grows with each small, courageous action.
✔ You have the power to rewrite your story and reclaim your worth.
🌟 Are you ready to move past self-doubt and step into your full potential? 🌟
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